Are you having trouble engaging in long term relationships? It can be quite difficult to see your friends finding their true love while you keep hopping around from one relationship to the next that winds up being unsatisfied.
For many, the reasoning may seem simple on the surface in that you have not found the “right one”. However, what many fail to consider is that you have to be the “right one” for somebody else, which is arguably why your relationships do not work out in the end.
When seeking out true love that will last, you will need to keep some things in mind so that you can identify issues not just with the other person, but with yourself as well so that you can make the changes which in turn allows you to find the “right one”. If your ready to start an accurate psychic reading online, sign up for free.
Are You both Interested in Commitment?
In many cases, one person is interested in taking the relationship to the next level while the other is content to keep things the way they are. This doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you are being rejected, all it really means is that both of you have different interests and are not pursuing the same goal.
Arguably the worst mistake that you can make is trying to convince the other that your goal is the right one as that will not get you what you want and will only lead to more conflict and pain. Your choices are to either accept what they want or detach yourself and find someone else. It may be tough to leave, but if it’s the right thing to do then you should go.
Live Up to Your Beliefs
Basically, if you don’t want a relationship that has casual sex, then do not get intimate until you are an exclusive couple. Because if you do go ahead and break that promise, then you are telling your partner it is okay. Once you cross that line, you have committed yourself to actions that are in contradiction to your own beliefs and you will be the one confused. So, state your principles and stick to them.
Do Words and Actions Coincide?
The old saying “action speaks louder than words” is really true. Does the person you find interesting follow up on all of their promises? Do you deliver on all of your promises as well or are you all talk and no action?
Do You Love Yourself?
Go to the mirror, look at the refection and ask, “Would I marry you?” If the answer is “no” because you are uncomfortable with yourself, then why should anyone else marry you? Everyone has flaws and things about themselves that they would like to change, but if you don’t love yourself, then you are simply not ready to be loved by anyone else. You’ll have to learn to live with your flaws and correct the ones that you can. But the bottom line is that you have to be comfortable with yourself before you can expect anyone else to fall in love with you. Start an online psychic reading live, sign up for free.
Time is Your Friend
If your relationship is meant to be and you’ve found the right one, then there is no rush. You don’t want to push things faster than your partner is ready to accept them. After all, look at it from their perspective. You have just met and you don’t really know each other all that well, but they are hinting that you should go on vacation together, attend the wedding of your relative and want to know everything that you do when the two of you are apart.
Just what exactly would you think when faced with a partner like this? Such behaviour tells you that your partner does not love themselves, has no boundaries and is trying to snare you before you come to your senses and realize what is happening and run to the hills. That person actually doesn’t care about you, they only care that they are not alone in this world.
That is why you should take your time because you don’t want to look like such a person. Relax and take things one at a time.
Do you Communicate with Each Other?
If you find yourself being uneasy about asking certain questions about your partner, then that is a red flag right there. You should not ask your friends, relatives or anyone else questions that you should only ask the person you are currently in a relationship with. If you are afraid of their reaction, that is a big problem that you need to address. Start your online psychic reading live. sign up for free.
Always Look Forward
Do not apply the same standards to the person you are currently in a relationship with to those that you have dated in the past simply because they are different people. After all, if you think this new person in your life is the same as the last person and that didn’t work out then why make any effort at all with this one?
Consider the Whole Person
Think beyond what you find attractive about them and consider all the aspects of that person’s life. Yes, they may have everything that you want, but if they work 60 hours a day and have no time for you, then what good is being in a relationship with them? In essence, you will need to look at the practical aspect of their lives to see just how your relationship is going to work. If they have gone quite a bit and you are not invited, that is not a good sign. You have to consider what you really want and if it doesn’t fit in with their plans, then you need to consider finding someone else as difficult as that may be if you are looking for a long term commitment. We have live empath psychics online now, sign up for free.
Perfection is Only in the Mind
No one is perfect no matter how perfect-seeming they are. Everyone has flaws and most long-term relationships will be decided on just how much you can put up with what you don’t like about them. For the most part, the flaws in a person are generally not as big as you might think, so it pays to put things in perspective.
Live in the Moment
Enjoy the time that the both of you have together and things will tend to work out one way or another from that. As long as you are honest about yourself, feel comfortable with asking questions and the two of you have time to spend together, then things will tend to run their course.